for the past 3 months, i am happy and proud to have done all these, as a father:
- change his diapers and clean his shit (that's the first thing i learnt)
- prepare his milk and feed him
- bathe him
- entertain him when he is awake
- put him to sleep
- help him change into a new set of clothes (extremely stressful when he is struggling and crying)
but honestly, when he is throwing a tantrum and crying at the top of his voice, i can never ever calm him down, no matter what i do. only darling can. it is not only the power of the mother, but it is also because... darling can sing better than me. hahaha.
luckily during that 2.5 hours he never cry at the top of his voice. and i must say that i am so thankful when darling came back home. together with my in-laws.
it is really very fulfilling to become a father. i feel a greater sense of purpose in my life right now. i always have a sense of purpose in my life, but right now the sense of purpose is GREATER.
next week we are going to bring him out, before the school holidays end. stay tuned for pictures! :)
